Question: My dog is suffering from liver failure. I am heartbroken. We held her the entire time. My dog was incontinent and unable to walk. I decided to lay her on my bed last night – her favourite place. Letting him die … Don’t let your dog chew any kind of bone into small pieces. She did not seem to be in any pain. First get your vets opinion if it is OK for your animal to die naturally. How do I deal with death? Often, there are options to treat some disorders associated with aging. I tell them about their adoption story, sing songs and talk about our life together. And into the new year. Also, one must consider that there is quite a shortage of vets offering hospice care and there is not much info about it. Not so much. My beloved cat had a brain haemorrhage a week ago in the early hours. I struggled so much with the decision of whether to put her to sleep at the vet and am so glad I didn’t. “I want her to die peacefully at home,” is among the most popular death-related lines whenever the issue arises––usually with respect to extreme geriatrics or pets with terminal conditions. He spent so much time suffering but all I could do was comfort him until the moment I could get him to the vet. Sometimes this may require advanced imaging such as an ultrasound and/or referral to a specialty practice with 24-hour critical care available. Again, this is a personal choice. Some owners can't bear thinking of their cat's last moments spent fighting at the vet. Dogs are often stoic and will not necessarily manifest pain in obvious ways. Owners can create an area in familiar surroundings—a sanctuary—for the animal to be comfortable and in familiar surroundings. It sounds like that was your plan once your vet opened. If you decide to let your dog or cat die at home, you will need to learn how to recognize pain and must acknowledge and accept all the events as they unfold. Just wow. Unfortunately, that's the disadvantage of natural death; you never know how things may unfold, and if the pet may start suffering, you may not have a vet handy at the time of greatest need. They said there was nothing wrong with her, so I asked when the pick up was expected. Consult with a compassionate vet and do what's best for your pet and you, and do it in the most informed and best way possible. Heidi Thorne from Chicago Area on July 01, 2013: I know you've just been through this. It is not meant to substitute for diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, prescription, or formal and individualized advice from a veterinary medical professional. We are confident she is dying but my husband does not want to euthanize her. Adrienne Farricelli (author) on June 29, 2013: It is tough, every time we lost a pet we always said no more pets, but then for some reason we ended up with another one. You might be filled with guilt for euthanizing them or you might worry that they suffered in their final moments. In the first euthanasia appointment I assisted with, the owner cried as he hugged his family and said, "It was so peaceful." The vet was waiting for her to be picked up. He had liver failure, but the whole thing was wrong. It's hard.. And she is allowed to be free and finally go be in peace. Pets who die naturally usually go agonal first. But, I do know that every situation is very different and in the end you need to make the choice based on your situation. Further research revealed that regretting is part of the grieving process. I will never know if my vet was just doing her job or trying to be a hero...or? My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. He doesn't seem to be in any pain, but how do you know? Options include communal cremation, private cremation, and burial. The difference (for us) emotionally is big. They may provide injectable meds for the owner to adminster in case of a crisis. I get asked about this a lot but to my mind it’s not so important as long as pets don’t appear to be suffering thirst or hunger. I will not let Jumble suffer as my friend did but I will be talking to him and tickling his favourite spot behind his ears when he has his injection. However, it is also true that vets know the pet's condition best and are extremely knowledgeable about which diseases are prone to cause a very painful ending. The last thing you want is for your dog to be in pain. But we must think guilty about what? Especially at first, give one at a time. Remember that there's no timeline when it comes to grief. But Vet called and said your 7 year old has a Mass on his Spleen. Isn’t that uncomfortable? For many dogs, Cushing’s begins when they enter their elderly years. The pet's breathing changes noticeably towards the end and for us it's a time to sit or lay with them so they can feel your presence as they slip away. Her respirations became shallow. My vet had no compassion at all. What if they’re not eating and drinking? Otherwise, with every single one of my dogs, I've had to make that decision we don't ever want to make and been with them to the last moment. Euthanizing is a process or the act of putting an animal to death. Animals exhibiting signs and symptoms of distress should be seen by a veterinarian immediately. It is rare that an owner, when picking out a puppy from a litter or a companion from a shelter thinks about the choices available at the end of a dog’s life. Glad you were able to do it. I have been agonizinng all day about what to do. I've always had a sense of when it was right. This is so hard. I have never let a dog die alone. But our vet at the time was amazing and venturing into the hospice arena. Congestive Heart failure in dogs is a reality that, detecting it in time, helps faithful furry companions to live better. So sorry your dog is going through this. This may not happen immediately. My dog is over 16 years old. Yesterday was so hard, I knew the end was near and was still battling with the decision of whether to take her to the vet or not. When the morning came, I looked at her and she sat up. Spend time with them and reassure them that it's going to be okay. We as a nation traditionally view animals has beasts of burden, has labor to be replaced when their value is diminished. Answer: Not at all. Sending you my deepest condolences. Yet, hydration may help them be more comfortable. We're really privileged in the animal community to be able to euthanize [and relieve animals of suffering].". We will now be looking at both sides and using some references to gather different views so you can make an informed decision. While we would have prefered for her to pass at home, she was a survivor and was holding on for everything she had. But who am I to intervene and say enough is enough? I often hear people claiming that they want their pet to die "naturally," but there is nothing natural about an animal enduring days, weeks, or even months of misery before death mercifully arrives. I have put many dogs cats and horses to sleep by euthanasia. Because of the quarantine, he even stayed with him overnight because we were just exhausted from round the clock home care. I'm still way more emotional about it than I ever thought I would be, but it was the best thing we could have done. If you decide to let your pet pass away naturally, make sure you contact your vet in advance and arrange a plan should they suddenly deteriorate after hours. We are facing another loss to cancer soon and hope she can die naturally at home. Answer: This is a very difficult question to answer. If your pet passes away during your vet's business hours, you can call them to let them know and ask for assistance depending on what you want to do next—maybe you want to have them cremated or buried. So you cannot leave it to die in pain. I'll always remember these words." Question: How do you know when is the right time if your pet is a senior dog? In fact, once the underlying issues of many patients were identified and addressed, they no longer chose to end their lives. I just wanted to post here to hopefully provide some comfort to others in a similar position. I have just had to part with my 16 yr old dog and we chose euthanasia as her quality of life had deteriorated so much. Here are some pros and cons for both putting your pet to sleep and letting them die at home. I intended to have her put down. My Shih tzu dog aged 13 had to go to vet ,as he had sickness and diarrhoea. Will I be able to handle seeing their health rapidly decline? How unfair to let her go without us around her. My experience is that the topic is difficult to discuss w/o being shamed by those who have chosen to euthanize. Kitty’s tale is proof again that when it comes to death and dying one size doesn’t always fit all. She says that if you determine that their pain can't be mitigated by any mild pain relievers, then the decision should be made to let the animal go. My decision has been supported by my/their Vet. Also, some animals may not do well in the car. I have a cat who has lived on my porch for 17 years.I go out twice a day and sit with her and feed her.She would never come in.It took us 3 years to capture her to get her spade.She had many litters and we did find homes for all her kittens but she never wanted to come in.So I put a sleeping bag over a chair and put a heated pad in her little set up and in winter I would sit on the porch with her on an electric blanket.It was the best I could do.It took 10 years before she would let me pet her.When she had enough petting she would swat me.I live in a condo and she would roam the neighborhood. My dog moved on the second shot and howled.,plus the hair stood up on his whole back! I explained what they should expect to see (final, agonal gasping, sudden rigidity, seizures, etc. I thought my vet loved animals, but I guess not! The main advantage of euthanasia is that it's mostly pain-free and often peaceful. I don’t want to lose Jack. If you're dealing with more indoor accidents, you can place a pee pad near their bed or even have them wear a diaper if that's easier. But you'll still want to keep an eye out for any of the above signs or for any changes. Knowing your pet's normal pulse and respiration rate may help recognize pain at home—rapid breathing and pulse are both signs of pain. It sucks but it honestly might be the best gift you can give them. This is the scariest thing possible for an animal. It was too late for me to make arrangements. It was the most horrible experience I have ever experienced, plus awful for my pet who was like my child. She wasn’t suffering and would still respond to her usual pampering on my bed or my work desk. What is heart breaking is like you said, seeing them slowing get weaker by not eating or drinking and shutting down. He feels guilty that he put to death his companion of 13 years. I don't think I could go through it again. Bentley had metastatic oral melanoma. We had to make a decision. Why can’t a doctor help her own pet pass? Everybody wishes their pet dies in their sleep. It would have ended poorly and I couldn't have dealt with her having a seizure. This article will tackle both views. How do I forgive myself? I have helped two of my cats pass on and I actually recommend it over euthanizing the animal. He has started making a pathetic high sounding "meow". I have been through euthanasia twice previously with other beloved cats and left traumatised the first time 16 years ago and which haunted me for years. The dog healed well and it had a happy ending. Years ago, I was dropping off records at a new vet in a new town, and she was sitting in a cage on the counter. She doesn't even react when our 6-year-old lab bounds into the room. The end-of-life stage includes symptoms such as anorexia, behavior changes, decreased urine production, different breathing patterns, and decreased alertness. The second vet disagreed with the first vet and said my dog has a virus .Now my dog is running around perfectly healthy .If I has listened to her ,my dog would not be here today I feel something should be done anout her ? Her eyes are clouded over, and she seems unaware of her surroundings. Blood pressure measurements may be helpful indicators since blood pressure rises when an animal is in pain. I know that IF I ever get another pet I will try my best to be more than adequately prepared for this very hard decision and time at the end of their life. Being aware of the most subtle signs of pain is important. It may be time to take them to the vet to be put down or to start to prepare for death. Many mobile vets offer this service. Do you let your dog sleep in your bed with you at night? She always sleeps on my bed but last night and tonight she’s tucked away in a corner of the room. All that matters is that the pet isn't in any major pain. I actually prayed for god to take her and end her suffering. From the moral point of view, you can differ with the views cited in the article, but from the psychological point of view, there is nothing wrong and there will not be any chance of infection as such, if your dog does not bite and make a wound on your genital. Many owners say that they want to give their pet “time to say goodbye” but in the opinion of most veterinarians, you are a kinder friend to your dog by euthanizing and ending their life. According to the American Kennel Club, “almost all patients are older than eight years when Cushing’s disease develops.”Many symptoms of Cushing’s can be mistaken for aging so often the development of the disease is overlooked until it is in an advanced stage. This past winter has been tough on her and she seems disorientated and has trouble manipulating her back legs. Miraculously, within a minute, he came back to me and put his head on my lap, his favorite place to be. On letting pets die at home...and the ABCs of doing it right. It wasn't and now I dont know how to cope with the guilt. I’m not saying you should put your dog to sleep so you can adopt another dog….I’m just sharing my perspective on dogs, euthanasia, and our life without them. I am in the UK and for the past year have been caring for my best friend's elderly cat. And then another week. My cat named Holly Berry has been with us for about 14-15 years. Full Guide is here for Complete process for euthanize your dog with Tylenol. Sometimes, there may be un-diagnosed disorders that may be treatable. Veterinarians, of course, will recommend euthanasia, because that's what they are used to doing and some may not be familiar with hospice care or holistic treatments. I hope this helps some people making the same choice. Adrienne Farricelli (author) on July 18, 2018: Denisr, I am so sorry you are going through this. After a few days she warmed up to us again. If you're debating whether it's time to make an appointment, it's important to determine your pet's quality of life. Here are some signs your pet will exhibit once they have passed away. I would suggest consulting with a vet to make sure your dog is comfortable. There is nothing they can do. Question: My dog is dying. I knew he was my dog the moment I saw him. Jack is, undeniably, “my” dog; while I half-heartedly scold him for his recalcitrance towards his other owner, I secretly revel in the exclusivity of our little club. Take care! It’s something many veterinarians I know comment on. (If your pet is … He is terribly thin, bony and frail, and his back legs are weak and collapse while he is walking. Question: My dog died naturally. Consulting with your vet and inquiring about how you can make your pet more comfortable is recommended. She is going to be put down next weekend. If you plan to let you pet naturally at home, talk to your vet about pain management first and foremost and inquire if sedatives can be administered at home towards the end. Quoted from the book "When your dog has cancer: "Dr. Helene Starks of the University of Washington evaluated the 1998 to 2006 statistics relating to the Death with Dignity Act in the state of Oregon and found that the small number of patients who indeed took the medication to end their lives were neither in a rush to do it nor made the decision due to unbearable pain. I hope this helps others. When the dog loves walks and seeing other dogs and people. I am waiting for the vets office to open at 8 but my heart is breaking that she is in pain. She would meow for water and jump into the tub, but just stare at the water on the floor of the tub like she forgot how to drink. In early December, we noticed some weird things she begun doing: Her "meow" changed and she almost sounded like a duck when she would meow. So I knew our little pup was handled with love and kindness even to the end. There's nothing worse than watching your beloved companion take a turn for the worse and not being able to find a vet to come to your home to allow your them to rest in peace. More often than not, the appointment is either early in the morning or late in the evening when the hospital is quieter and the vets aren't as busy. So this hub is probably a good way to help put this difficult time into perspective. Once you have come to terms that your pet’s quality of life is declining and that you have the power to provide him with an act of mercy, it’s okay to embrace all of the emotions that come with your decision – euthanasia can be a relief to both you and … There are drugs to reduce leakage in incontinent female dogs and acupuncture sometimes can do wonders for some dogs. Is it wrong that I wanted to be there for his last breath? Adrienne is certified dog trainer and former veterinary assistant. I've only had one parvo puppy who had to be put to sleep when I wasn't there (I regret it to this day). Lara has been terminally ill for a few months but slowing down for over a year – the vet said she was quite an old cat for her size. Like you said, it is a personal decision and one that isn't taken lightly. I wish I had never taken him. Plan on using Meloxidyl to manages his pain and keep an eye on the signs, just think it's way to early to call it quits. The worst part is, I am staying with my mom THIS weekend and I won't be here NEXT weekend. Before that happens, you might want to ask the vet to take your dog's paw prints for you. I kept telling her to go be with her brother at the rainbow bridge. My rules? We considered euthanasia but he seemed close to passing so we sat with him. Other questions you may be asked is if you want to be present for the procedure. She hated the vet and hated us for bringing her there. I lost my beloved dog Mazey yesterday due to complications of renal failure. Adrienne Farricelli (author) on March 26, 2019: Eiramizus, so sorry for your loss. So that’s where we left things yesterday. She does not seem to be in any pain and a lot of times when I think I need to do this she Springs back and runs around like she's ten years old. When a terminal patient is awake and gasping for breath, “going home to die” is just about the cruelest thing I can imagine. The pet is spared from the stress of seeing the vet or going on a dreaded car ride. You should always let a vet handle euthanization. For burial, their body will either be returned to you if you wish to bury them in your yard (check your local ordinances for this), or it may be given to a company that runs a pet cemetery. Some owners cannot bear the thought while others may want to be there for the last moments. The problem with pain though is that often animals tend to hide the pain. So, I cleaned her up often and offered her water. A reduced awareness level bodes better for at-home dying. Putting an animal to sleep is not something you want to make an appointment for. The pet is booked at the vet's office, and they reserve a special time slot specifically for this procedure. I want to do a natural home death. She was barely drinking a quarter of a saucer full of tuna juice. You can learn more about the grieving process and … Many find this hard to watch. I am having a very hard time getting over what I have done!! After a pet dies, typically their bowls will release. What I so appreciate about this article is the fairness in which the options are presented. I wish I'd euthanized while she was still feeling ok as opposed to suffering. Although this is expected or even planned, it can still be a shock when it actually happens. Jillian, so sorry you are going through. When you call your vet, you may be asked several questions such as what you plan to do with their body after they pass away. I wanted her at home. Thank you. She is very weak and started pacing yesterday, very confused with her head down and stumbling and walking into things. Her owners preferred that she die at home on her own if at all possible. It hurts me to make an appointment a day or two out and then she has her outbursts of feeling so good. I feared so much that she would get hit by a car but fortunately, she never did. You can also call the dedicated hotline the ASPCA has for those dealing with the difficult decision of euthanizing a pet. Question: Aren’t there vets who can come to your home to perform euthanasia? After we brought her back from the vet, she wanted nothing to do with us. Though it’s not always possible or advisable to have your pet die at home on their own, sometimes it will happen beautifully. can look really scary, especially if no one’s told you to expect this). Mazey passed in my arms 4 full hrs before the vet was to arrive. The medicine made her very ill and I regretted giving it to her...finally she seemed to get a little better, until about four days ago, and over the weekend when the vet was closed. The owner doesn't have to wonder if they made the wrong decision by putting them to sleep too early. The signs a dog is dying are several. Although the vet was wonderful, Reassuring and comforting. If you decide to allow a natural death and then your pet suddenly starts suffering, you may regret your decision to not euthanize them. I hate the fear of taking my dog to the vet because she is so afraid and knows where she's going and something always painful happens when she's at the vet. I am normally a strong person but trying to make that decision has really broken me. I will always miss her but know deep down I will see her again. Adrienne Farricelli (author) on September 23, 2018: Sandra, so sorry for your loss. Unbelievably so actually. I lost my 11 year old vizsla this morning, but his pain started many many hours before. It was her room and I was always just a guest in it I lay beside her stroking her and with what little energy she had left she raised a paw and placed it on my hand – I know deep down she was telling me it was ok. She died very peacefully early this morning, no seizures, no nasty noises and a beautiful red dawn was just breaking. How often does a new owner look at a frolicking, excited dog and realize that bundle of energy is going to get old and die? Cats often hate to be taken out of their environment, so dying at the home may seem to be the best choice. If your pet dies or is put to sleep at the veterinarian's office, they will handle the remains for you. I knew he was getting old and into his senior years but I just feel so naive for not being more prepared and thinking he would just go in his sleep. She was found in a wooded area with her family. Her name is Scarlett. after 13 years my dog was put to rest she had a yeast infection i wanted to keep her blanket to help with her passing is it safe ? So sorry for your loss. It is hard to know how much pain they are in and I hate the thought of them suffering if there is another choice. If your dog or cat is slowing down but is still eating and responding to your commands, it's likely that these are just signs of old age and that they aren't in any pain. If they're in pain because of an underlying health problem, this will help them finally be free. This is what happened to animals before there were vet offices and anesthetics. He left him sitting up and didn't make it so he wouldn't feel it. I cannot believe this happened! Now I feel so guilty and I still see those awful images of him going through that! The mobile vet was overrun with calls..."we'll come tomorrow" It was the longest night of my life. My mom and I made the choice to put her down after my mom found her in the tub crying and crying for water. Now this morning all of a sudden at 6:00 AM she is moving and restless and very confused again. Your companion may not go through some of these stages if you euthanize your pet before they unfold. If they have congestive heart failure or untreatable cancer, it might be worth looking into euthanasia since you don't want them to suffer. I assumed her person was due to pick her up, but she didn't have a family, feline or human. She has taken several courses on hospice, end-of-life care for dogs. If they are struggling to breathe, it's probably best to put them to sleep. 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